Meredith Aubrey Writes
The Guides
Each one solves a specific night you've already had. Buy the one you need now, or take the whole system and be done researching.
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The Bedroom Door Packet
One page, kept in a plastic sleeve and taped to the door, that speaks for your parent when you can't be the one to answer. Everything EMS needs, in the ten seconds they actually have to look.
Buy this if: You want to see how I build a guide before you commit to the full library — and because every home needs this taped up tonight, not eventually.
What's inside
✔ Full medical snapshot: conditions, allergies, intolerances, current medications
✔ Emergency contacts, insurance, and physician info in one glance
✔ DNR, advance directive, and POA fields — clearly marked
✔ Best door/path for a stretcher, so EMS isn't guessing
most complete
Outsmarting the System
A caregiver's playbook for the meds, the money, the meals, and the doctors who won't listen and the caregivers who don't seem, to care— with faith woven through every page. Printable and fillable.
Buy this if: You are the one holding all of it in your head and nothing is written down.
What's inside
✔ 94-page fillable PDF binder + printable version
✔ Medication & allergy master sheet (ER-ready)
✔ Doctor visit prep and after-visit notes pages
✔ Legal document tracker: POA, advance directive, will, HIPAA
✔ Insurance, Medicare, and account inventory
✔ Emergency packet to tape on the bedroom door
✔ Sibling/Caregiver update template so you stop re-explaining
for right now
The Hospital Discharge Workbook
You came home with a stack of paperwork and no plan. Work through this in 40 minutes at the kitchen table and know exactly what happens in the next 14 days.
Buy this if: There has been a fall, a hospitalization, or a new diagnosis in the last month.
What's inside
✔ Discharge paperwork decoder, line by line
✔ The 12 questions to ask before you leave the building
✔ First 72 hours checklist
✔ Home-safety walkthrough for the week after (or ideally before your parent comes home)
✔ Follow-up appointment and rehab tracker
For the talks you keep postponing
The Hard Conversations Guide
Scripts and sequencing for the conversations that decide everything: driving, money, moving, help in the house, and what your parent actually wants at the end. Prayers for each conversation.
Buy this if: You know what needs to be said and you keep not saying it.
What's inside
✔ 8 word-for-word conversation scripts
✔ How to open without triggering defensiveness
✔ Sibling alignment worksheet before you talk to Mom
✔ What to do when the answer is no
✔ A short reflection page for after
Stop researching
The Vetted Product List
The specific products worth buying for an aging parent's home — fall prevention, medication management, monitoring, mobility — with what to skip and why.
Buy this if: You have 14 tabs open comparing shower bars and pill dispensers.
What's inside
✔ 60+ vetted picks by room and by risk
✔ Price tiers: good, better, worth the money
✔ The 9 popular products that are not worth it
✔ Setup notes for the ones parents resist